Reconnecting: A Self-Coaching Solution to Revive Your Love Life

“The author provides insights and guidance on how to take individual responsibility for one’s relationship struggles. The self-coaching methods he suggests help people see how their insecurities can lead to endless cycles of control, criticism, and ultimately not getting the love they want. The techniques are drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy, which encourages self-examination, insight, and careful management of how we act and communicate. Luciani says that taking these initiatives helps us become catalysts for change, rather than blaming and staying tangled in conflict. His diagnostic questionnaires are helpful, but they stay narrowly focused on how individuals handle insecurity, anxiety, compulsions, and depression. Though the author’s documentary-like reading voice is easy to understand, his assertive and often self-promoting tone will make it difficult for many people to be open to his ideas.” —AudioFile

“An enlightening and hands-on approach to exploring change in relationships. This remarkable book gives us all another opportunity to create better partnerships and benefit from the process. Dr. Luciani facilitates personal change in a clear and concise style.” —Janice Grossman, former publisher of Seventeen and New York magazines

“Reconnecting is an extraordinary book that can end needless relationship struggle and frustration. Dr. Luciani’s approach is to empower you to become a catalyst for change and healing. Regardless of the nature of your struggle, if you read this book, you will be in a position to direct the love back into your life and reconnect with the relationship potential that you once knew.” —Joe Franklin, legendary TV and radio personality